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        Miss1  46, Female, Kentucky, USA - 13 entries
    08
    Nov 2006
    7:36 AM EDT
       

    To the question above---no i don't believe i fully listen to the other party's side when in an argument. That is something I am trying to work on with myself. That's a pretty complex and open question for me right now. Maybe someone out there can give me their answer so I can learn some different ways of handling situations like that. Yesterday was my birthday. Josh and Chandlyr really did the best they could to make it a great day for me and of course they succeeded. Without them I have noone---i know that but I still can't help but feel the way I do about Josh. You guys know---I've spoken on it. And I got this other guy at work. I'm not sure what his intentions or plans are for what we got going on. I'm not sure where that's gonna go. I just want to be happy. That's it. I think that's a fairly simple request when it comes down to it. But I do not want to hurt people on the way in my path to self-fulfilment. But I've learned that sometimes that is necessary. Maybe the only way at times, right? God, what the fuck is wrong with me? I need some fuckin' professional help---fast!!! Enough on that negative bullshit...I got my hair done yesterday. It's different. I like it I guess I just have to get used to it but Josh and Chandlyr seem to like it. I've been off work for two days so tomorrow I go back and I find out what all type of bullshit went on in that small timeframe.That place is all DRAMA!! funny shit for real but I actually truly like my job and the people so I guess that means I sort of enjoy the craziness that goes with it. You know...cause this time it's their craziness and I get to sit back, watch and fuckin' laugh!!!!I only wish I got paid more cause I definitely deserve it!So how's everybody out there? I would like to take a second (for those who actually read my fucked up words!) and say that I am truly grateful for the "friends" I've made here with this journal who have read this or given me advice. Thanks. You are the reason I keep doing this. Because it is helping me. So until then....I'm out for now.....later!!
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        Miss1  46, Female, Kentucky, USA - 13 entries
    08
    Nov 2006
    7:36 AM EDT
       

    To the question above---no i don't believe i fully listen to the other party's side when in an argument. That is something I am trying to work on with myself. That's a pretty complex and open question for me right now. Maybe someone out there can give me their answer so I can learn some different ways of handling situations like that. Yesterday was my birthday. Josh and Chandlyr really did the best they could to make it a great day for me and of course they succeeded. Without them I have noone---i know that but I still can't help but feel the way I do about Josh. You guys know---I've spoken on it. And I got this other guy at work. I'm not sure what his intentions or plans are for what we got going on. I'm not sure where that's gonna go. I just want to be happy. That's it. I think that's a fairly simple request when it comes down to it. But I do not want to hurt people on the way in my path to self-fulfilment. But I've learned that sometimes that is necessary. Maybe the only way at times, right? God, what the fuck is wrong with me? I need some fuckin' professional help---fast!!! Enough on that negative bullshit...I got my hair done yesterday. It's different. I like it I guess I just have to get used to it but Josh and Chandlyr seem to like it. I've been off work for two days so tomorrow I go back and I find out what all type of bullshit went on in that small timeframe.That place is all DRAMA!! funny shit for real but I actually truly like my job and the people so I guess that means I sort of enjoy the craziness that goes with it. You know...cause this time it's their craziness and I get to sit back, watch and fuckin' laugh!!!!I only wish I got paid more cause I definitely deserve it!So how's everybody out there? I would like to take a second (for those who actually read my fucked up words!) and say that I am truly grateful for the "friends" I've made here with this journal who have read this or given me advice. Thanks. You are the reason I keep doing this. Because it is helping me. So until then....I'm out for now.....later!!
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        moonbay72  34, Female, Oregon, USA - 20 entries
    08
    Nov 2006
    6:10 PM EDT
       

    Hey people! What you dueing here?
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        milagros  37, Female, California, USA - 13 entries
    08
    Nov 2006
    5:42 PM EDT
       

    When i have a diccusion i dont really put my self in the other person in that moment i just want to get out of there.I just dont anything and cause it may gets worse, I can try to come down and relax
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        iNjAy  30, Female, Texas, USA - 7 entries
    08
    Nov 2006
    5:13 PM EDT
       

    Consider a recent argument you've had with someone important people in your life. Were you actively listening and trying to fully see their side? Is there anything you wanted to say but didn't? Why not? What can you do to make communication more effective? Well, my friend says that I talk over people to much, and i tried to see her side, but i find it hard to see other people's sides unless they explain it to me. What can i do to make communication more effectice? well, all in all, i think that when it's written this way: What can I do to make sure that my friend and I understand eachother better, makes more sence to me. Well, I could try talking to her and tell her my side, and see how she feels about that. Other than that, I could seek advice and make it better.
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        Jane  58, Female, Texas, USA - 50 entries
    08
    Nov 2006
    5:01 AM EDT
       

    The open house was a big success. I am so happy about the turn out. We had about 75 people come to the house for the sampling event. It really turned out very well. I think the meals were a big hit. We had lots of positive responses from everyone – now let’s just hope they order some of the meals. We did get 3 order yesterday and we were not even really pushing anyone to purchase anyone. The concepts of the heat and eat meals is really great for busy people and most of our clients agreed and were happy to finally have an easy option available for dinner. Well I have to get busy this morning. I have been trying to set up a web site for Hartmans but was having some technical problems. But it is on line now!! We are going to have an online store for ordering the Heat and Eat Meals. I need to get busy right now and get the on line store finished!!!! hartmansvariety.com J
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        Lynsie  51, Male, Texas, USA - 4 entries
    08
    Nov 2006
    4:29 AM EDT
       

    Havn't beem on. Nobody reads mine anyways right? Well have a wonderful day. Lynsie..:D
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        stepstv  36, Female, California, USA - 19 entries
    08
    Nov 2006
    3:51 PM EDT
       

    Well recently I have not had an argument first because I am christian. My family and I are very religous, we try to go to church at least 3 times a week, we believe that arguments are not a way to slove anything. Second is that I am a very nice person, so there is no reason why any one should have an argument with me, well I had my moments before I started going to church that me and my mom would fight for little reasons. When we used to fight I would never listen to their side because I tought I was always right but I realized that I was not.
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        cursers44  36, Female, Florida, USA - 14 entries
    08
    Nov 2006
    11:08 AM HNP
       

    why bullitins and other shit mean nothing in religion, it makes things too easy to say- Current mood: sleepy when i can say this out loud to anyone i'll die happy but it may be blasphemy because the words just poured out like water i may have just wrotten a bunch of shit and i'm contridicting myself, but w/e this is better then nothing i truely love God and a stupid bullitin couldn't prove that so whoever thinks that ppl who put up the minimal effort truley love god, i'll see you in hell, not happening, if a bullitin proves your love for God, your loveless! look at this crap... if that's a test then i guess we'll all be in heaven within 24 hours, what kinda bs is that, Jesus was tortured and stabbed and killed for you and you think a fucking bullitin will do you justice, we think living is a gift but on this earth we might as well die if you ask me, i'm not perfect but i think that a stupid bullitin is spitting in Gods face especially if your doing it because you feel obligated or you want a fucking miracle. no one cares about half the shit on myspace and noones going to remember that there was a bullitin about God on myspace, what about the other shit you ppl post does it have any significance to God? like that 7 different ways to have sex thing or how about that what drug r u or the other lame shit you post God bullitins are like one in a million, so instead of being a lazy ass and feeling guilty and posting this crap because you think it will influence someone, grow up and stop being so afraid of yourself and everyone else it's not about what they think it's about what God thinks so here's the challenge, i challenge you and myself, to admit your a coward and admit that you can't stand in front of your freinds and talk openly about God without feeling embarassed once you've admitted your a coward mabey you'll realize that your only hurting yourself. I'M A COWARD! I'M NOT A GOOD CHRISTIAN I'M A LAZY COMFORTABLE PERSON TRAPT IN A COOCOON, i can't even come out with any words they're trapt in my throat, but i don't care mabey one day i'll grow up and understand the big picture but for now all i have to offer is a bullitin, and the truth that until you see that reputations are nothing when you make your peers your judge- i'm sure no one read this far but at least i tryed to help you understand that a stupid bullitin means shit if you don't really try to mold it into your life and try to become a better person and try to get off this earth instead of stay on it if i can learn how to spread God to people, then i'll be happy in death, if i find a way to give what i have to others, then i'll be happy. this life is nothing. down below is a crappy bullitin, prove you love God you can't prove things like that. this isn't a test i think God could care less in Jesus name i say amen Body: Body: It said Top 10 people I would kiss but would you have opened it if it said "GOD" in it ? respost this in 5 mins. If You Truely Love GOD. and a miracle Will Happen Tonight at 12.00 P.S. ( Dont ignore ) u never know when God is testing you
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        cursers44  36, Female, Florida, USA - 14 entries
    08
    Nov 2006
    11:01 AM HNP
       

    the most interesting thing ever... Current mood: drained i have no life bored outa my mind if you have no life you can be my freind and we'll hold hands and do freindship stuff like... make freindship bracelets and play the abc game and play molopoly till 4 in the morning, by then i'll have all the property then we can sing the song that never ends we can play pattie cake we can sing in the shower we can do prank phone calls pick our scabs harass ppl on the internet play sharads beat eachother up draw pretty pictures listen to as i lay dying while we mosh the hell outta eachother exchange stories over the fireplace and tommorrow i'm making waffles hahaha then we can play our imaginary guitar and sing songs about how much life is gay because apparently we have no life it consists of the normal everyday shit so enjoy yourb/f g/f group of freinds cliques w/e the hell it is and i will resume to waiting for God to come and get me off this pointless stupid world if you want to stay on this earth and you want God to come later because apperantly you haven't had enough "fun" yet, then your an idiot because if you find any of this gay overratted fucked up life fun, then you have more problems then i do which is a sad thing on your part if i had my way God would come right now and fix this shit hole we've created hopefully the ozone layer will collapse and burn us all godnight my fellow retards i will now resume to doing nothing...
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